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If wearing a T-shirt of his football team is the pinnacle of dressing up for him, it's because he doesn't care, doesn't know, and doesn't understand that the way he looks reflects on you.


So, he needs help.


Your help.


Let me assist you.


The 'You, but Dapper' dressing guide for men includes everything he needs to know to dress better, along with 112 different outfits, both casual and formal, and a detailed list of all the items he needs in his closet to look sharp, elegant, and dapper.

Isn't it nice when the two of you dress up and go out looking cool and elegant? For the price of just another T-shirt, he can get the full guide. Maybe that's all he needs.

Give it a try. You can buy it here.


Cover of the ebook 'You, but Dapper'

What's inside:

-A primer covering essentials like shoes, pants, shirts, sweaters, socks, and belts.

-A color guide tailored for men who aren't keen on colors.

-112 diverse outfits, ranging from casual to elegant.

-A crash course on suits, ties, and the fundamental combinations.


Outfit pages with an easy-to-follow, clear design.

Outfit #58

Everything he needs and no thinking required

Dark gray suit, outfit #3

There's even a shopping list

A list of clothes that make the basic closet of an elegant man

Help him look dapper.


 
 
  • mrdapper2
  • Apr 19, 2024
  • 1 min read


"I feel like ironing a shirt this morning," no one said ever.

But every little effort you make to dress better helps to make you feel better about yourself.

When you dress up, you look better and you feel better. It's a show of self-respect, one that others can see.

You take care of yourself because you love yourself. The interesting thing is that it also works the other way around. When you take care of yourself, you love yourself a little bit more. It may sound silly, but it is true.

Dress up, look at yourself in the mirror, and you will smile. It's a good smile.

So get your best shirt and the f*cking iron.


 
 
  • martinelenaflores
  • Apr 15, 2024
  • 1 min read

Updated: Apr 17, 2024




If you have ever worn one of those inflatable T-Rex suits, those who saw you then thought of you as another inflatable dinosaur. No judgments made. You were what you dressed. The same thing applies right now; you are what you are wearing. If you are wearing a Batman suit, then you are Batman for anyone under 6 and a guy with a Batman suit for everyone else.


The point I am trying to make is that people will always get the wrong idea about who you are because of the clothes you wear—unless you are one of the Ramones; then they will get it because you are wearing a T-shirt with your f*cking name on it.


So, if you are okay with people thinking you are an inflatable T-Rex or a guy with a Batman suit, then keep doing what you are doing. But if you want people to show some interest in you, the easiest way to do it is by dressing like somebody interesting to know.


So, how do you dress interestingly? Thanks for asking this question. Get a dressing guide that is easy to follow, that will not bore you to tears, and that has a sh*tload of outfits for you to try without spending a fortune on clothes. I would suggest you buy 'You, but Dapper' (duh!) because I wrote it and because you will look interesting from Outfit#1 through Outfit#116.




 
 
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